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G Gigantalope Member Shinola, California Joined: Aug 01, 2004 Posts: 913	G Gigantalope Posted posted on Tue, Aug 24, 2004 12:29 AM Hey Suicide_Sam There is an old saying that "young men think about women they have made love with, and old men think about the one's they didn't". I belive when considering life changing choices, it's best to think not only of how it may end up in 20 years...but if you will go to your grave unhappy wondering "what if" I have found myself feeling similar to what I think you are feeling at several times in my megre life. I think if one never did, they would be a fool. What I found as a usefull tool for me is a visit to a very strange place alone. Especially a 3rd world country. The lack of things familiar, makes familiar things somehow clearer....and in time my roll in them, or not in them becomes more defined to me. Best of all, you can be wrong a bunch of times, and you learn as you go. Hope that helps. [ Edited by: Gigantalope on 2004-08-24 00:32 ]

Hey Suicide_Sam
There is an old saying that "young men think about women they have made love with, and old men think about the one's they didn't".

I belive when considering life changing choices, it's best to think not only of how it may end up in 20 years...but if you will go to your grave unhappy wondering "what if"

I have found myself feeling similar to what I think you are feeling at several times in my megre life. I think if one never did, they would be a fool.

What I found as a usefull tool for me is a visit to a very strange place alone. Especially a 3rd world country.

The lack of things familiar, makes familiar things somehow clearer....and in time my roll in them, or not in them becomes more defined to me.

Best of all, you can be wrong a bunch of times, and you learn as you go.

Hope that helps.

[ Edited by: Gigantalope on 2004-08-24 00:32 ]

Post #109924 by Gigantalope on Tue, Aug 24, 2004 12:29 AM