Post #56055 by ikitnrev on Mon, Oct 20, 2003 9:45 PM

I myself would be honored to have a role in something like this. Based on your tone, this carving is something that the client is sincere about, and the ceremony is not just for some comedic effect. Think of all those old movies, where the new person is invited into a peacepipe ceremony, or to share in some other ritual that they know nothing about - perhaps a drink from some tribal cup, or to join the rest of the community in dancing. In that sense, it can be part of the exotic journey, to sample a part of the world which you formally knew nothing about. Even the Brady Bunch did something like this when they made their Hawaii trek!

There are many different interpretations for bringing 'spirits to life.' I doubt that this person expects the tiki to start walking around when the moon is full. Perhaps he is concerned with having to destroy a formerly living tree, simply for his backyard decor. This ceremony could be a form of expressing hope that the carving will help him inspire to do better things in the future, and not simply be some trendy thing for display. The ceremony could be simply a form of saying 'Thanks,' just as so many people say grace before meals for the food presented before them.

How about relaying your thoughts and concerns to your potential client? My guess is that he would be more than happy to share his views with you, and you might walk away being even more inspired to do this carving. I know that I would jump at the chance to be able to share thoughts and views with a more artistic type, especially if the carving were to end up in my backyard. He might just be a guy with some unusual beliefs, like some eccentric uncle, and you will have some great stories to tell later. On the other hand, you might discover something that makes you even more uncomfortable, and then you would feel a bit better about declining this job.

VErn