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Correction: Keli is my sister. We're Don's grandkids. Don, our grandfather (1909-1996), has his arm around James, his father (1883-1971). Next to James is Prudence "Prudy", his mother (1880-1972). We knew them as "Granny and Gramps". The person peeking out from behind the man with the glasses on the left is Don's brother "Bud" (Reginald) -- [my dad verified it]. Our "Uncle Bud" (1911-2011). His wife at the time to his left was Gwendolyn "Gwen" (1908-1960). His 2nd wife Alyce (married 1967) is still alive (and kicking) living near my dad in Chandler, AZ, she's 97. Our late mother Betty Ann is in the lower left corner (1935-2013), and she's sitting next to Gladys, Don's wife (our grandmother) (1909-1976). Our dad David (Don's son) is on the right of the photo wearing the striped tie. He's 83 and probably the last surviving member of this photo. This was probably taken around our parents marriage in March 1959 since both Bud and Gwen were in town from Texas and she died in Aug 1960. Our dad recalls the remaining people in the photo were friends visiting from Muncie, IN -- probably old school friends as both Don and Gladys were graduates of the Indiana Teachers College or as it's known now: Ball State University, or "Ball U" as he loved to call it. He was a "yell leader" for the football team and a musician (he was a pianist and band leader), my grandmother trained as a nurse. [ Edited by: lohphat 2019-04-09 13:09 ] |
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lohphat, Awesome info...thanks so much for sharing. OGR |
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Mon, Apr 8, 2019 11:35 AM
I remember Kelly's (in Naples on 2nd Street) as a kid as it's logo had the "K" backwards and it really annoyed me as I considered it "broken". They finally closed in 2013 and was vacant for several years. It's now "Chianina Steakhouse" https://goo.gl/maps/jg5Pwrup5CB2 |
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Tue, Apr 9, 2019 1:14 PM
An interesting tidbit: The location of The Gay '90s was a former Japanese community schoolhouse. The building was torn down decades ago after Don sold the Gay 90's in the late 60s or early 70s -- I remember being really young like 4-5 when I was there once when they were clearing it out after it was closed. We still have a few trinkets from the kitchen. [ Edited by: lohphat 2019-04-09 13:23 ] |
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Tue, Apr 9, 2019 1:23 PM
I remember the Lelani's murals behind the bar used to have animated lights behind them which would simulate moving water of the falls and lagoon and campfires on the beach. I regret we didn't save more mementos. The Leilani was sold in 1974 to Darlene Thornton and became "The Stockpot" becasue Don's wife Gladys (my grandmother) was in declining health; she died in 1976. Don later married Darlene in 1982; sadly she died of cancer in 1990. The Stockpot didn't last too long -- my memory of that period is fuzzy. I'm not sure when John Morris bought the building and turned it into Legends. |
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Tue, Apr 9, 2019 1:33 PM
We STILL have the Muncie sign! Interesting note about Ray the chef: Some guys tried to jump him in the alley behind the Leilani one night because he used to carry a wad of cash -- remember the times as immigrants often didn't trust, or were unfairly treated, by the banks. Anyway, he grew up in China and knew enough kung-fu so that little 5'3" man laid waste to them. He was NEVER roughed up again. He was a ladies man and loved his scotch. Always had the ladies come around and look him up. The other chef whom we called "Billy Dee" (Hong Kay Dea was his real name) opened up his own restaurant in Gardena called the Jade Palace. We used to go there until he passed away in the mid '80s. He was always indebted to Don as he was able to pull some strings to get Billy's family out of the PRC after the 1949 Chinese Revolution. Billy was a very kind and funny man. I miss him still. [ Edited by: lohphat 2019-04-09 13:35 ] |
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A dual ad for the Leilani Hut and the Gay 90s restaurants from 1961. DC |
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I am SO glad the site is back up! Update since what it seems is forever:
Since dad died, I'm the keeper of all the old family photos. I'll post them as I come across relevant ones. [ Edited by lohphat on 2022-07-19 16:19:57 ] |
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lohphat, I'm really sorry about your father. Our thoughts are with you. Do you have any photos showing the Polynesian mural. I read in the newspaper it covered 3 walls. How big was it? Was it painted by Frank Bowers? [ Edited by Jethro on 2022-08-01 05:55:30 ] [ Edited by Jethro on 2022-08-01 05:57:38 ] [ Edited by Jethro on 2022-08-01 12:23:48 ] [ Edited by Jethro on 2022-08-01 12:32:01 ] |
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This is from the Independent Press Telegram Sun on April 25, 1954. It mentions the large mural covering 3 walls. |
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As I remember it, the mural went from behind the bar and around the main dining room. After the Leilani was closed and became The Stockpot (owned by Darlene Thornton whom my grandfather later married) they kept the decor. After it closed some years later, I don't know if there was an interim owner before John Morris moved in to open Legends. I wish we kept it and more of the artifacts other than the Alan Woods original oil paintings. Since I was still not of driving age, I didn't go back to the location until the early 80s and by then it was Legends which opened in 1979. |
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Hi lohophat, Would this photo of Irish McCalla painting a mural be at Leilani? Do you know if the Leilani mural was painted by Frank Bowers? Do you have any additional photos showing the mural? https://tikicentral.com/viewpost.php?post_id=801421 Here is the menu cover from Leilani. Was this image from the mural in the restaurant bar? https://tikicentral.com/viewpost.php?post_id=592890 Thanks for all your info. |
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Tue, Aug 2, 2022 8:53 PM
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I can't remember -- that's the sad part, it was when I was less than 10 years old and the only person who might remember clearly, my dad, is now gone. |
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Thu, Aug 4, 2022 9:46 AM
BTW, a company called m00nshot.com is reprinting the Leilani logo on clothing. I don't know where they got the artwork from but it's really good stuff. They did this without our involvement, so I don't have answers yet since I've reached out to them. https://www.m00nshot.com/search?type=product&q=don+may%27s+leilani [ Edited by lohphat on 2024-05-20 11:02:42 ] |
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I've reached out to John Morris who opened Legends in 1979 -- he knew my grandfather. I'll let you know what he knows. [ Edited by lohphat on 2022-08-04 09:50:46 ] |
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I came across this last month going though my things in storage. They're early (probably late 50s) business cards for The Leilani Hut, and The Gay '90s. They're 1/3 the size of a standard business card. Note the pre 1970s "exchange name" format of the telephone numbers. Here the prefix is "GE" (GEneva) but I know it as "HE" (HEmlock) as it was on later printings. I wonder when the name changed as both refer to the digits "43" so either would work for that central office in Belmont Shore at the time. Old Telephone Exchange Names Los Angeles County https://www.laalmanac.com/communications/cm01e.php [ Edited by lohphat on 2023-02-06 11:56:19 ] |
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Bumping this fascinating thread - lohphat, it seems several of the top Hawaiian musicians played at the Leilani, including Bennie Nawahi - would you happen to know if there are still recordings of some of the concerts that were performed there ? On 1/4 inch tape for instance ? That would be a fantastic source on Hawaiian music ! |
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Hi! In reference to this part of your post: "The web site mentions "The Beachcomber Tavern" 5300 something E 2nd Street. That beer bar was opened by a husband and wife who hired Perry Barrett as one of the first bartenders there. He may remember more details." Do you think that the husband and wife that owned the bar in 1961 were Donald (Bill) Wilson and Jo Ann Wilson by chance? Is there anything else you know about that place, besides the rough night you had there :) Thanks! |
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Fun Fact: Richard Kauhi played at the Leilani in 1957/8. My mom was teaching in Whittier after having just graduated from Whittier College in 1957. She took her roommate to the Leilani to introdce her to Hawaiian music and she met my dad bartending there. If it weren't for that, they would have never met and my sister and I wouldn't be here. Richard is buried in Honolulu Memorial Park behind Diamond Head where many of my mom's relatives are buried. I visit his grave whenever I'm there. https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/71791344/richard-kauhi [ Edited by lohphat on 2024-05-20 10:55:37 ] |
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Perry and my dad grew up together on Belmont Shore. I know the family since I was a toddler as they were best friends, but sadly, Perry passed away in 2017: https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/181659225/perry-hilson-barrett |