Mother In-Law Hates My Tikis. What to do? - General Tiki

M MrBaliHai Tiki Socialite Behind the Cheddar Curtain Joined: Jun 01, 2002 Posts: 1031	M MrBaliHai Posted posted on Sat, Aug 18, 2007 6:05 AM On 2007-08-18 05:48, Tikinaut wrote: I just decided one day that I didn't want to be around that nonsense anymore. I totally understand. I came from pretty much the same background and reached the same conclusions. As such, if my mother inlaw can't tolerate my Tikis (which I don't worship), then so be it. As an individual that's who I am. If she can't accept that then there's the front door. But you're not the only part of the equation here. Your wife is involved as well. Is she willing to stand up to her with you? If not, then you're basically showing her the front door too.

On 2007-08-18 05:48, Tikinaut wrote:
I just decided one day that I didn't want to be around that nonsense anymore.

I totally understand. I came from pretty much the same background and reached the same conclusions.

As such, if my mother inlaw can't tolerate my Tikis (which I don't worship), then so be it. As an individual that's who I am. If she can't accept that then there's the front door.

But you're not the only part of the equation here. Your wife is involved as well. Is she willing to stand up to her with you? If not, then you're basically showing her the front door too.

Post #326387 by MrBaliHai on Sat, Aug 18, 2007 6:05 AM