Post #327077 by irishf on Tue, Aug 21, 2007 12:07 PM

Why can't it be OK that she doesn't come over? She set her own boundary, just as you can set yours to have tikis. Visit somewhere else. She's already offered a good solution. It's not like she said she'll never have anything to do with you, period. She feels uncomfortable with tikis, so she prefers not to come around. I see nothing wrong with it, unless she's saying you're gonna burn.