Post #474419 by Tiki Kupcake on Tue, Aug 4, 2009 10:20 AM

You know the more I think about this thread the more it rubs me the wrong way. If you have a problem with someone then you need to say it to their face. If you don't like the way that someone is treating you then tell them. You don't post a passive aggressive thread saying you won't name names, but there are certain ppl who are doing things you don't like. That is only going to make what you don't like stronger towards you and will alienate others from getting to know you, as well because they won't agree with the way all of this was approached. There is no Aloha in this thread or the way this is being handled. I adore my fellow NW tikiphiles, but pointing fingers, making accusations, and not saying names makes us all look bad, including yourself. It saddens me to see the way this has all unfolded and how it may affect upcoming tiki events in the NW. You really need to talk to the person that you will not name and clear the air. Just remember, not everyone has to like everyone.