Official Tiki Oasis 11 thread - California Events

S SanDiegoJoe Member San Diego Joined: Sep 02, 2011 Posts: 1	S SanDiegoJoe Posted posted on Fri, Sep 2, 2011 5:08 PM I agree Matt, There was almost a fight in one of the room parties (actually happening at the same time on the same floor as the elevator mug incident).. This guy walked into the room and shouldered the host... then turned around and ran into him again, looking for a fight. The host and I simply grabbed him and shoved him out the door, his girlie was yelling at him ("why do you have to be like that"). There is no room for this kind of stuff at Tiki Oasis. There is no fighting in tiki - just rum and love. Joe On 2011-09-01 17:30, Matt Reese wrote: I think these few instances could be easily avoided if the Tiki community steps up a bit. I noticed little things that would help, like if you see some joker at a room party and he gets drinks without tipping, ask that person to leave. We have to hold people accountable in this community if we are ever going to rid ourselves of the clowns that just don't get it. If there are people doing things that you know are lame, say something to them. I do love this scene and noticed a big part of what makes it cool is that there are no "tough guy" types. I saw one younger guy trying to act tough, giving people the mad dog stare. No one bothered to respond to him.This basically invalidated his whole deal and he lightened up. No one has time for frat mentality b.s. I, for one, have no problem asking people to chill when they get out of line. I'm no tough guy. Anyone who knows me knows I do my best to turn the other cheek. I also have no problem protecting a scene that I enjoy and am involved heavily in. This sentiment isn't just for Tiki Oasis, it goes for any event I attend. Tiki Oasis is a big deal. I love it and will continue to attend and do my part to keep it as TC as I can. Maybe everyone needs to ask themselves if the scene is something they love do they want to help correct the problems or just complain and hope others will take care of it? I'm not suggesting anything stupid like violence. I'm suggesting being vocal at the events themselves and confronting negative aspects to try and resolve them. Whew! That was exhausting. Peace with every step.

I agree Matt, There was almost a fight in one of the room parties (actually happening at the same time on the same floor as the elevator mug incident).. This guy walked into the room and shouldered the host... then turned around and ran into him again, looking for a fight. The host and I simply grabbed him and shoved him out the door, his girlie was yelling at him ("why do you have to be like that").

There is no room for this kind of stuff at Tiki Oasis. There is no fighting in tiki - just rum and love.

On 2011-09-01 17:30, Matt Reese wrote:
I think these few instances could be easily avoided if the Tiki community steps up a bit. I noticed little things that would help, like if you see some joker at a room party and he gets drinks without tipping, ask that person to leave. We have to hold people accountable in this community if we are ever going to rid ourselves of the clowns that just don't get it. If there are people doing things that you know are lame, say something to them. I do love this scene and noticed a big part of what makes it cool is that there are no "tough guy" types. I saw one younger guy trying to act tough, giving people the mad dog stare. No one bothered to respond to him.This basically invalidated his whole deal and he lightened up. No one has time for frat mentality b.s. I, for one, have no problem asking people to chill when they get out of line. I'm no tough guy. Anyone who knows me knows I do my best to turn the other cheek. I also have no problem protecting a scene that I enjoy and am involved heavily in. This sentiment isn't just for Tiki Oasis, it goes for any event I attend. Tiki Oasis is a big deal. I love it and will continue to attend and do my part to keep it as TC as I can. Maybe everyone needs to ask themselves if the scene is something they love do they want to help correct the problems or just complain and hope others will take care of it? I'm not suggesting anything stupid like violence. I'm suggesting being vocal at the events themselves and confronting negative aspects to try and resolve them.
Whew! That was exhausting.
Peace with every step.

Post #605265 by SanDiegoJoe on Fri, Sep 2, 2011 5:08 PM