Post #158003 by Swanky on Wed, May 11, 2005 12:44 PM

More than one wife/S.O. has come back from Hukilau having had a good time when they went down there expecting hell.

It also depends on your relationship dynamics. Can you not play with your friends while she enjoys a day on the beach, etc?

Honestly, it's a lot harder to tolerate a tiki collection, etc in the house than a very fun bunch of super nice people at a 4 day party at the beach and the Mai Kai. A wife who is just tolerating the tiki thing at home will likely have a great time at Hukilau and may come home with a real idea of what it's all about.

Don't drag her kicking and screaming, tie her up and gag her first. :wink: She'll at least not hate you for it, and may love you for it. Think of it as the big payoff for all this tiki in the house she puts up with.