Wife hates Tiki....Now what? - General Tiki

P PapeToaTane Member Salt Lake City, Utah Joined: Mar 19, 2005 Posts: 518	P PapeToaTane Posted posted on Wed, May 11, 2005 12:52 PM I am in the same boat - but for us, it works. She is a better-than average equestrian (Red-Jacket USET at 16, Olympic Team in 1980 - when that peanut-farmer President pulled the plug on Moscow), and I personally don't know which end of the horse has the head attached - nor do I care. But - I go to "horsey things" with her, and she lets me hang with the ohana. The key is to strike a balance - in all things, of course - but especially when it come to time spent. "Trade-offs" often work - in my case, the tiki is going to be done strictly solo - except on very rare occasions. Wife is also four-years sober - and does not like to be around the rum-soaked atmosphere of the typical tiki gathering. That's cool. When we're together - it's great. Other times, well - we both have our own passions - it works for us. It took some doing to move tiki into the house - but - slowly but surely.... :tiki:

I am in the same boat - but for us, it works. She is a better-than average equestrian (Red-Jacket USET at 16, Olympic Team in 1980 - when that peanut-farmer President pulled the plug on Moscow), and I personally don't know which end of the horse has the head attached - nor do I care. But - I go to "horsey things" with her, and she lets me hang with the ohana. The key is to strike a balance - in all things, of course - but especially when it come to time spent. "Trade-offs" often work - in my case, the tiki is going to be done strictly solo - except on very rare occasions. Wife is also four-years sober - and does not like to be around the rum-soaked atmosphere of the typical tiki gathering. That's cool. When we're together - it's great. Other times, well - we both have our own passions - it works for us. It took some doing to move tiki into the house - but - slowly but surely....

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Post #158006 by PapeToaTane on Wed, May 11, 2005 12:52 PM