Post #708580 by tikilongbeach on Tue, Feb 18, 2014 1:35 PM

I'll throw my 2 cents in.

Edit the gifts section to read, "In lieu of gifts please donate to the charity of your choice" or something like that.

It's a wedding with a set time as is stated on your invitation. If they can't get to the church on time than they're SOL. There is no need to include anything in your note about that.

Instead of leave your children at home you could include something like "Due to limited venue space, Adults only please”. I took that from an etiquette website.

Including your email address in addition to the stamped reply envelope should be good enough. I suppose you could even create an Evite if people don't want to go to the trouble of sending an email or going to a mailbox. http://www.evite.com