How the Pacific Islanders Saved Civilization

or how they helped to threaten the institution of marriage, however you wanna look at it.

http://www.nzherald.co.nz/storydisplay.cfm?storyid=3572731

Tapu Misa: You can thank Pacific Islanders for your view of sexuality

16.06.2004
COMMENT

Depending on where you stand on the homosexual debate, we in the Pacific
could either be blamed or lauded for our impact on matters gay.

Since those first European explorers sailed into the warm waters of the
Pacific and became the grateful beneficiaries of the sexual largess of
Polynesian women, we've had an undeniable influence on the way in which
Westerners have viewed sexuality.

Thanks to the work of countless writers, artists and ethnographers, that
influence has been assumed to be largely of the heterosexual kind, given the
Pacific's long reputation for being something of a heterosexual utopia.

But according to Dr Lee Wallace, a women's studies lecturer at Auckland
University, that's only the half of it.

The other, and less-known half of the story, is that the Pacific has played
a seminal role in the emergence of modern homosexual identity. Yes, I know,
ironic isn't it?

Especially when you consider how pious and proper we Pacific Islanders have
become, and how fervent many of us have become in the stand against
homosexual encroachment on our churches.

Still, Dr Wallace mounts a persuasive argument in her book Sexual Encounters
when she posits that early European encounters with Polynesians opened up
new ways of viewing sexuality - particularly homosexuality.

Because up until then, it had indeed been a world without homosexuals. The
kind of world, in fact, that the new head of the Anglican Church in New
Zealand, Bishop Whakahuihui Vercoe, and many of his Christian supporters
seem to believe could once again exist.

Of course, this wouldn't be the first time we've been blamed/credited (take
your pick) with sexual influence we didn't know we had.

All the time we thought we were the ones being influenced by those devout
Christian missionaries, who introduced a new morality and the idea of sin
into the Pacific, and besought us in the name of the Lord to cover up,
discard our lascivious dances and love a little less indiscriminately, we
had no idea that accounts of our apparent sexual laxity were having a
liberating effect on sexual attitudes around the globe.

American anthropologist Margaret Mead didn't help matters when she wrote her
internationally celebrated 1928 book Coming of Age in Samoa. Her picture of
an idyllic, gentle and sexually uninhibited culture where adolescents were
free to indulge in sexual activities without the attendant guilt caught hold
of imaginations already piqued by ethnographic accounts of the Pacific as a
kind of sexual free-for-all.

Whatever the weaknesses of Margaret Mead's thesis, the same could be said
about same-sex relations witnessed by Europeans in pre-missionary Pacific
days.

In fact, says Dr Wallace, it was these encounters between European and
Pacific peoples in the 18th and 19th centuries that gave rise to our modern
understanding of homosexual possibilities and identity.

Her somewhat subversive readings of the accounts of such historic luminaries
as James Cook and his lieutenant Joseph Banks, French artist Paul Gauguin
and even the ill-fated William Bligh (of Mutiny on the Bounty fame) reveal
plenty of instances of male-male sexual practices involving Polynesian and
Melanesian males, which, in pre-missionary days anyway, was seen as normal,
openly referred to and not the least bit shameful.

She argues that these encounters forced ethnographers of the Enlightenment
era to view sex between men as being not limited merely to the detestable
and abominable act of sodomy, but as something altogether different.

Up till then, homosexuality simply didn't exist. In fact, until the late
19th century homosexuality wasn't recognised as a distinct category of
person. The word wasn't even invented until 1868 when it made its appearance
in the lexicon, in a German pamphlet.

What was recognised and abominated, and had been since medieval Christian
theologians of the 11th century had declared it so, was sodomy, though that
initially applied to all manner of non-procreative sexual practices.

This was later confused with unnatural acts, which ranged even more widely
to include, among other things, procreative sexual acts in the wrong
position or with contraceptive intent.

Later Christian authors couldn't agree on what unnatural acts or sodomy
meant, some in the 13th century defining it as every genital contact
intended to produce orgasm except intercourse in an approved position -
presumably what we've come to know as the missionary position.

The English Reformation Parliament of 1533 then turned that religious
injunction against sodomy into the secular and abominable crime of buggery,
punishable by death, but this wasn't limited to activity between males and
could involve a male and female, even a husband and wife.

As Dr Wallace argues, those attitudes held sway until encounters with the
sexually relaxed ways of the Pacific gave rise to a reimagining of sodomy,
which was to ultimately give birth to what we now know as homosexual
identity.

Meanwhile, in the Pacific, the missionaries were doing a sterling job of
wiping out all manner of activity which could be construed as even remotely
sexual. They didn't succeed totally. The faafafine of Samoa, the fakaleiti
of Tonga, and the mahu of Tahiti, continued to thrive - defying easy
definitions, being neither strictly homosexual nor transsexual.

As for Maori, there's no reason to suppose they were any less sexually
relaxed than their Polynesian cousins. Dig a little deeper and there's
plenty of evidence of what another academic, Dr Leonie Pihama, calls a more
fluid, more open attitude to sexuality and gender roles before the influence
of the church and colonisation.

She says Maori terms which refer to an intimate companion of the same sex
indicate not only that same-sex relationships existed in pre-Christian Maori
culture, but were also no big deal.

In fact, says Dr Pihama, it's even acknowledged in well-loved legends such
as that of Hinemoa and Tutanekai.

Hinemoa, as we all know, was the maiden who was so enamoured of Tutanekai
that she swam across Lake Rotorua in the dead of night to be with her lover,
guided only by his flute. It's a great love story but there's a twist which
has been sanitised in the more general telling to accommodate the shift in
morality. It seems that before Hinemoa, Tutanekai lived with another - a
male by the name of Tuki, and was so beloved that when Tutanekai took up
with Hinemoa, he gifted him land to atone for his abandonment. Or so the
revised story goes.

As for defining sexual identity, Dr Wallace says that's a continuing saga.

In a number of Native American cultures, a homosexual was seen as one with great enlightenment, as one that understood both genders.

On 2004-06-21 14:30, Tiki_Bong wrote:
In a number of Native American cultures, a homosexual was seen as one with great enlightenment, as one that understood both genders.

I believe I've heard of transsexuals being referred to as "two spirited"

Photos taken from Ebay auction.

Doesn't Tahiti have a widely accepted group referred to as the "third sex" - men who dress in women's clothing and perform "pink collar" type occupation.

[ Edited by: christiki295 on 2004-06-21 17:43 ]

Tiki_Bong

In a number of Native American cultures, a homosexual was seen as one with great enlightenment, as one that understood both genders.

---

"I'm ashamed to be here, but not too ashamed to leave..."

and i heard the enlightened ones who undeerstood all three genders also did interior decorating, hair design and were involved in the makeup and fashion industry!

(again; not that theres' anything WRONG with that...)

"I'm ashamed to say that, but not too ashamed to retract it..."

In Samoa they have the "fa'aa fine" who are sons who are either chosen or choose to live their life as a woman. It's pretty normal and you see them in most villages.
In Apia there is a great beauty contest every year, its a blast, they all get dressed up and some of them are pretty hot, then again some of them have beards too!

On 2004-06-22 03:19, lanikai wrote:

Tiki_Bong

In a number of Native American cultures, a homosexual was seen as one with great enlightenment, as one that understood both genders.

---

"I'm ashamed to be here, but not too ashamed to leave..."

and i heard the enlightened ones who undeerstood all three genders also did interior decorating, hair design and were involved in the makeup and fashion industry!

(again; not that theres' anything WRONG with that...)

---

"I'm ashamed to say that, but not too ashamed to retract it..."

Lanikai,

Is that your stab at humor? I'm sure there are TC members that would find your stereotyping offensive and in poor taste.

Why don't you contain your humor to your attempt at pidgin posting.

On 2004-06-22 08:50, Tiki_Bong wrote:

On 2004-06-22 03:19, lanikai wrote:

Tiki_Bong

In a number of Native American cultures, a homosexual was seen as one with great enlightenment, as one that understood both genders.

---

"I'm ashamed to be here, but not too ashamed to leave..."

and i heard the enlightened ones who undeerstood all three genders also did interior decorating, hair design and were involved in the makeup and fashion industry!

(again; not that theres' anything WRONG with that...)

---

Lanikai,

Is that your stab at humor? I'm sure there are TC members that would find your stereotyping offensive and in poor taste.

apologies for the stereotyping.

On 2004-06-22 09:08, lanikai wrote:

On 2004-06-22 08:50, Tiki_Bong wrote:

On 2004-06-22 03:19, lanikai wrote:

Tiki_Bong

In a number of Native American cultures, a homosexual was seen as one with great enlightenment, as one that understood both genders.

---

"I'm ashamed to be here, but not too ashamed to leave..."

and i heard the enlightened ones who undeerstood all three genders also did interior decorating, hair design and were involved in the makeup and fashion industry!

(again; not that theres' anything WRONG with that...)

---

Lanikai,

Is that your stab at humor? I'm sure there are TC members that would find your stereotyping offensive and in poor taste.

apologies for the stereotyping.

In your post you modified my signature as yours with "I'm ashamed to say that, but not too ashamed to retract it..."

I guess you were wrong, eh?

On 2004-06-22 09:15, Tiki_Bong wrote:

On 2004-06-22 09:08, lanikai wrote:

On 2004-06-22 08:50, Tiki_Bong wrote:

On 2004-06-22 03:19, lanikai wrote:

Tiki_Bong

In a number of Native American cultures, a homosexual was seen as one with great enlightenment, as one that understood both genders.

---

"I'm ashamed to be here, but not too ashamed to leave..."

and i heard the enlightened ones who undeerstood all three genders also did interior decorating, hair design and were involved in the makeup and fashion industry!

(again; not that theres' anything WRONG with that...)

---

Lanikai,

Is that your stab at humor? I'm sure there are TC members that would find your stereotyping offensive and in poor taste.

apologies for the stereotyping.

In your post you modified my signature as yours with "I'm ashamed to say that, but not too ashamed to retract it..."

I guess you were wrong, eh?

yep, been wrong before, will be wrong again...

bad attempt at humor. bad, bad lanikai.
they can't all be gems, I suppose...

I was watching Taboo: Sexuality last night. The part about the "third sex" of India, the hijras (eunuchs), are also believed to be endowed with a sort of mystical power to bless or curse, but are not necessarily revered because of it.
http://www.greatreporter.com/modules.php?name=News&file=print&sid=108
They must endure a great deal of ridicule and harassment. I believe the Native American berdache's life was perhaps not exactly so, but they didn't exactly get the silk-pillow treatment either. At least they were allowed to be married to female warriors, who themselves were thought to possess spiritual attributes of both sexes.

Are there any gay TC members who found that to be in poor taste? Just curious.

the ways of the third sex world in bangkok, oriental city

http://www.q.co.za/2004/06/0608_bangkok.htm

"How the Pacific Islanders Saved Civilization?"

By providing those who live in the so-called civilized urban jungle an opportunity to escape to paradise.

It's funny that the more the urbanites romaticize about the allures of primative polynesian living, the more they strive to become like us!

Maybe one day we'll meet in the middle?

On 2004-06-24 09:19, Tiki_Bong wrote:
Maybe one day we'll meet in the middle?

Another original Bongster sexual innuendo.
No charge. :)