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Where are we with the Tiki Gardens Memorial fund?
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Thu, Feb 13, 2003 11:40 AM
Any recent totals? |
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Tangaroa
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Thu, Feb 13, 2003 4:26 PM
Sadly, I recieved this e-mail from Cy yesterday: "Guys, I regret to inform you that following our presentation to the Pinellas County Parks Advisory Board next week, tikigardens.com will no longer be associated with tikicentral.com, tikinews.com, or exotic-tiki-gardens.com in any effort to erect a tiki statue at the site of the former tiki gardens. We had anticipated offering assistance in terms of financing and presenting to the parks board, but we did not foresee having to foot all but $625 of a $7,000 - $8,500 bill. we're sorry it's come to this; all we would say is an idea isn't worth a damn until you decide to act upon it and then follow thru, and sadly there's been a whole lot of that not happening in this case. best, chris y" It's too bad - I would have liked to see this happen - even if I never actually went there.... |
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Tiki Chris
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Thu, Feb 13, 2003 4:33 PM
that's a bummer. :( |
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Trader Woody
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Fri, Feb 14, 2003 6:25 AM
So we ended up pitching in $625?! As DOA once sang, "Talk minus action equals zero". Trader Woody |
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Tiki Chris
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Fri, Feb 14, 2003 6:35 AM
or in this case, a measley 625 bucks. Dead On Arrival indeed, |
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Fri, Feb 14, 2003 8:18 AM
Bummer indeed. I hate to give up on what seemed so promising at that time, but a Beachcomber's got to admit when the tide goes against him. |
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Fri, Feb 14, 2003 8:55 AM
It's obvious to me that the majority of these TC'ers never really intended to follow through. I know I'm going to get flamed for this - I don't care. Shame on all of you who pledged & never came through. The majority of your pledges were for a measly $20 bucks. I'm trying to buy a house & have a baby on the way - I still kicked in. What's your excuse? So much for really caring about Tiki... |
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Fri, Feb 14, 2003 8:06 PM
they were too distracted with pirating the Tiki Gardens CD and polishing their Jimmy Buffet records hahahahaahaha oops sorry- |
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chris y
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Sat, Feb 15, 2003 4:38 PM
Hi, this is chris y from tikigardens.com. [ Edited by: chris y on 2003-02-15 17:43 ] |
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Sat, Feb 15, 2003 6:06 PM
It truly is an idealist view to assume that one can post a message saying “I’m building a memorial! Who’s in?” and get $2000 in hard cash to pour in over a month. Good, solid, information on this project is so scattered around the various threads and messages that it’s tough to keep track. Perhaps some organization of the information, and an effort to contact the people who pledged, will help. First Let’s see if we can’t get it all in one easy to read place to understand where we really are. If we can collect this information I’ll post it to the Memorial page that the banner links to.
Secondly, let’s see if we can contact the pledgers:
I know all this sounds like Extra work, but let’s face it: when you want people to pay, you just can’t yell “Pay!” and have the money come pouring in. I can't step up and take the project on, but I can offer the website, the forum, and my contacts in order to help out. ~Hanford [ Edited by: hanford_lemoore on 2003-02-15 23:47 ] |
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hanford_lemoore
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Sat, Feb 15, 2003 9:02 PM
Fatuhiva, don't know if you mean to, but you're implying you have Jimmy Buffet records! |
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fatuhiva
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Sun, Feb 16, 2003 12:37 AM
huh? |
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Sun, Feb 16, 2003 7:35 AM
Cy, |
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hanford_lemoore
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Sun, Feb 16, 2003 9:04 PM
I don't know. I was just trying to be silly. Didn't work. |
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Mon, Feb 17, 2003 10:01 AM
Chris y, Even if TC came up with the $1,500.00 pledged, you are still thousands short. You had hoped TC would "see this project to fruition". What does that mean? Are Otto and TC your only hope for contributions? On one hand you are funding a $5,000.00 Tiki and giving a presentation to the city council, on the other hand you ask for someone to step forward and "take responsibility". I don't understand, do you want out? I don't know who you are in regards to the memorial. I don't know the basic facts that Hanford outlined and I've read the threads. It is my understanding TC pledges are a $1,000.00 short, because of this, you don't want any of our money? If I needed $8,000.00 and a group offered $600.00 I would not cast dispersions and refuse to work with them. Your fundraising skills may need some polishing, tact, etiquette, patience and kindness. Despite your mastery of the English language, your well written argument and your righteous indignation, your comments read like a childish online Hissy fit. You "regrettably" informed us you will no longer be working with TC. That's fine with me. < [ Edited by: alnshely on 2003-02-17 11:54 ] |
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Tiki Chris
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Mon, Feb 17, 2003 10:30 AM
i think al may have some valid points. maybe i just wasn't paying attention (which is VERY likely) but i wasn't aware of any deadline. & when i read tangaroa's "received email from chris y" i was really surprised - as in there was no warning. i don't know how evident the plans/process/timeline for the project was either. what i mean is, did people know that we'd suddenly get kicked out of the loop if we didn't provide an amount close to what we pledged? so the project is continuing & the $20 that i donated is going to be used to attempt to raise a tiki at the tg site, right? tiki chris |
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Mon, Feb 17, 2003 11:25 AM
I agree. Al has some very valid points - one being that this whole project is not a business venture at all. It was a concept being executed through charitable funding. To imply that the $650 collected is not good enough is flat out arrogant! I mean, lets look at this whole thing in simple terms: A few people wanted to have a statue erected to honor an old amusement park. They roused others for money and when they didn't get it, they blasted those others for not sending it! And made them feel guilty about it too! Thanks Al for being the only one to stand up and voice what I'm sure others were thinking but too intimidated to say. *** * * The Polynesian Popster * * *** [ Edited by: PolynesianPop on 2003-02-17 11:32 ] [ Edited by: PolynesianPop on 2003-02-17 11:41 ] |
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Mon, Feb 17, 2003 12:19 PM
Right On Al, Check out this logic, I offered to contribute nothing, but take no slam from whoever the a-holes were a few posts back that slammed people for not coming up with what they pledged. Life has many uncertainties in it. Quite possibly the ones who pledged may have had other more urgent things happen in their life that put this urgent matter on the back-burner. Jesus Christ, if this tiki is so god damn important to you, finance it. What type of loser couldn't even get a measly $8,000 loan? I just knew this type of back-stabbing, petty-ass bickering would be the end result of this little gig, and that's why I steered clear. Live Aloha (or I'll kill you!) |
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Mon, Feb 17, 2003 1:31 PM
I totally agree with Al. Did anyone notice that the guy "we screwed over" only posted when money was involved. The Tiki Gardens LP, he was the one that squashed that. After hearing it, I wish he would've acted sooner. I remember when the memorial was an idea batted around by members, that too was squashed because He was already way ahead of us, organizing a memorial with the local government. Like Al said, he should be happy with what he got. Were TC members the only people donating for this? Bong's right on this one. Get a loan! DIY! Quit complaining. Get in a bread line...ask for toast. |
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Mon, Feb 17, 2003 2:58 PM
I like Jimmy Buffett. I never get any good Tiki mug finds. Why am I here? Goodbye cruel world... midn |
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Mon, Feb 17, 2003 3:21 PM
Thanks, guys. I wholeheartedly agree with you. I too did not get involved from the very beginning for basically the same reason Bong cited. Plus, I don't like to make promises I can't keep, and personally, I knew I hadn't an extra dime to contribute. We certainly are in the midst of an extremely difficult time financially for many, many people in this country. Charities from coast to coast are losing money; as a retailer myself, I'm reminded every day of what Lewis Carroll's White Queen told Alice--you have to run as fast as you can just to stay in the same place, and if you want to GET anywhere you must run at least twice as fast as that! Hence, if you are asking folks for money, you'd best be polite, tactful and patient about it!!! Frankly, even if I had it, I wouldn't give that guy a red cent now. Grrr. Midnite, don't end it all before the Crawl!!! |
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Mon, Feb 17, 2003 5:18 PM
chris y wrote me This is chris y from tikigardens.com. I thought I would answer some of the points you raised in your post on tc. My response: CY: "despite my call to announce to tc in November that pledges would soon be coming due, tc members weren't alerted until several weeks ago-after Christmas, a strategic disaster- and now those pledges amount to $675 or so. I am honoring my commitment;" Why didn't you just post a deadline yourself? You know how to post. CY: "let me remind you- this was tikigardener's idea to have tc fully fund this, not mine. You want us to contribute to your pet project; your hat is in your hand. This is a charity. I did not cast aspersions. I did not spread misinformation. It was a hissy fit and still is. Hanford asked some questions. Answer them online. We deserve your answers. If you believe I've spread misinformation, inform us. If this is your project stand up and take responsibility. Ok, now I have some questions. Chris y, do you expect anyone else to contribute with your pugnacious attitude? Let us know. [ Edited by: Alnshely on 2003-02-17 17:28 ] [ Edited by: Alnshely on 2003-02-17 17:34 ] |
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Mon, Feb 17, 2003 5:49 PM
Tiki-Bong wrote: Jesus Christ, if this tiki is so god damn important to you, finance it. What type of loser couldn't even get a measly $8,000 loan? I'll be honest, when it comes to Tiki Gardens stuff, I visit the websites, but I get totally bored off all of the insider bickering. We know that two or three sides have gotten their hands on various archival information and collectibles. What we never know is why Tiki Gardens material always comes with the prerequisite that the said parties will never agree on anything, and, I for one can always see a sense of proprietorship with all of the Tiki Gardens posters... it's as if they feel that they own the right to all Tiki Gardens information. I just knew this type of back-stabbing, petty-ass bickering would be the end result of this little gig, and that's why I steered clear. My feeling is, let's have these Tiki Gardens collectors get together and put out a book of all the official posters, etc., and also the insider pictures, contracts, etc. and let us have a concise view of a unique venture in our post-WW2 American culture. I'll pay $20, $50, even $75 for something like that (in color, please). To erect a Tiki god honoring an old themem park is not something I'm putting my money towards. Tiki is a great past-time... sometimes it goes too far. |
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Mon, Feb 17, 2003 5:51 PM
Me think that the nasty and rude comments towards T/C'ers that didnt donate initially left many speechless and shocked. Thanks Al for standing up first. Let's see how did it go...sweet talk T/C to get some charitable contributions and financial backing...then when you dont get enough money coming in, then try to humilliate, shame, and punish us 'cause you cant get your tiki up...that's the Tiki Spirit? Sheez with that attitude and demeanor I'm glad not to have given a promise or a donation to you. |
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Mon, Feb 17, 2003 6:19 PM
If I don't have anything nice to say.... [ Edited by: DawnTiki on 2003-02-18 11:03 ] |
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Mon, Feb 17, 2003 6:53 PM
My take: Chris is frustrated becuase he was hoping for more money, and it didn't come. That's why he posted what he did. Out of frustration. Did it rub some people the wrong way? Sure. Those who want to help out: Contribute. Frankly, I'd like to see the memorial go up. This topic is definitely not helping that. ~Hanford |
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Mon, Feb 17, 2003 10:00 PM
I agree that Chris's post was out of line, and I agree with Al that information was poor and the whole thing seemed very unorganized to those of us watching on TC, but none of that excuses those who pledged and didn't follow through. I don't think anyone has a beef with folks who didn't pledge and I don't believe any undue pressure was applied on anyone to force a pledge out of them. The fact is, if you pledged and you didn't follow through, that means your word is worthless. Lot's of things happen, and putting a tiki in a public park ain't exactly setting the world on fire with good deeds, but quite a few people GAVE THEIR WORD to pledge, and some folks (Otto, the tiki gardens squabblers) spent their time trying to make this work BASED ON EVERYONE'S PLEDGE OF SUPPORT. It's funny how people here can get so OUTRAGED at an eBay seller who leaves out a few facts and misleads stupid bidders who don't research the product they are bidding on, yet when people in our very own community fail to HONOR THEIR PROMISE, (in a sense, LIE), our outrage instead goes to the organizer, over what seemed to me to be a very obvious expression of frustration. Yes, it was rude, yes it was uncalled for, but does that excuse the people who have failed to follow through? I don't know Chris, hell the whole Tiki Gardens website fighting thing leaves a bad taste in my mouth, but everyone who pledged, pledged KNOWING ALL THIS, and made that promise of THEIR OWN FREE WILL. Is it really asking too much to expect people to STAND BY THEIR WORD? -Mike |
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Tue, Feb 18, 2003 7:29 AM
It's as easy as that. Well said Hanford. Trader Woody |
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Tue, Feb 18, 2003 10:11 AM
I have made pledges to various causes and have always received a direct message (in these cases, a phone call or email) when it was time to pay. It's really frustrating to hear complaints that not enough money was contributed when efforts towards a reminder notice were not made, especially when it was not explicit during time of pledging when the money would be expected. Fundraisers have to take some responsibilty for the fact that pledgers weren't contacted directly or given notice of a "due-date", and as a result, they lost much of their funds. Is it too late to still try to contact people who have been completely and honestly out-of-the loop? Or is everyone getting their money back? |
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Tue, Feb 18, 2003 1:50 PM
Not only is everyone not getting their money back, those who pledged and didn't follow through with be getting a ding on their credit rating! |
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Tue, Feb 18, 2003 2:51 PM
I can think of better things to do with $6,000. Or even $700.
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TheMuggler
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Tue, Feb 18, 2003 3:46 PM
Why that is just crackpot enough to work! I'll definitely shift my TG donation to this project! -Mike |
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Tue, Feb 18, 2003 11:19 PM
hmmmm. did no one see these simple questions.....1.Wayne wants $5000 to build the Tiki. Tiki Central members only pledged $1500. Even if we got 100% of the pledge money, there’s not enough to fund it. What is the plan to get the rest of the money?
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Tue, Feb 18, 2003 11:57 PM
An "amusement park"?!? oh brother that takes the cake. PS somebody take Kahukini's waterbong away- I believe he's had enough |
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TheMuggler
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 9:22 AM
I agree with Al. It would be nice to get some answers from an official source, laying out what the plan is moving forward, and if this thing is dead then what is going to happen to the money that has already been collected. After all that has gone on, perhaps the key players could get together, discuss, and post a plan that has been agreed upon by all involved. Anyone? Otto? Tiki Gardener? Cy? -Mike |
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 9:42 AM
As a big cheerleader for this project, I feel like I need to explain my motives since some people seem to be so negative about how it has progressed (or not progressed), or even the fact that we attempted to do this in the first place.
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 11:11 AM
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Otto
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 11:31 AM
Precisely! For the 50+ folks who pledged and have not actually contributed or stated why they do not want to contribute I would like to say it is not my responsibility to chase them down and make a list To state that each pledger should be contacted direclty [Manic Cat] is not very realistic. That is what this bulletin board is for - mass communication and participation. Like Geoff, I signed on as a cheerleader for the TG Memorial, not a full-time employee/volunteer. I would expect others to get involved and do their part so that I do not have to spend several hours in order to get a few hundred dollars worth of donations. Also, When I first started to make a list of contributors there was all sorts of hullabaloo about names and money figures being publicly displayed that I had to stop that process. therefore there will not be a list of pledgers posted on Tiki Central. The list of pledgers will be printed in a commemorative program that will be passed out at the unvieling should the project go through [more on this later] I expect cy or myself to post the official direction of the project later today thank you |
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 1:10 PM
I do have a question re: the project- is the wooden Lono tiki the actual final tiki, or is it going to be concrete and that is the model? |
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 1:17 PM
We all love to help out but the responsibility of raising funds lies with the “official Treasurer” of this ‘Business’ venture! i think it is clear this person does not exist.... When I pledge to public TV or Radio, I get a letter saying.... time to pay up dude! this ain’t Tiki’Rocket Science here. of course this is a pain in the ass but every endeavor is a pain in the ass. Posting on TC is fine but it will not collect funds I believe. [ Edited by: crazy al on 2003-02-19 13:22 ] |
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 1:59 PM
The Lono tiki that was in the picture was a small model. Wayne drew up a proposal at Chris' request that is to be part of tomorrow's presentation to the city. It is to be cast from concrete and is to be quite tall. Thanks for asking. |
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 2:14 PM
Otto--thank you for hearing my voice. I would like to participate. Am I being nominated to send mass emails? If so, then I would really like to help. Or I'm just dumb. Maybe people are just rude and lazy no matter who many times you contact them. If you are one of these people and are reading this, please think what horrible karma you will have for promising money and never paying up. MC [ Edited by: manic cat on 2003-02-19 14:18 ] |
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 2:51 PM
ManicCat, [ Edited by: Kailuageoff on 2003-02-19 14:52 ] [ Edited by: kailuageoff on 2003-02-19 17:09 ] |
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 3:39 PM
Well it's all looking a lot more positive now! I think the communication part was sadly lacking at times, which only leads to confusion. Certainly when this all began, it seemed pretty simple. We at Tiki Central through TikiGardener, helped by Otto's efforts were going to put up a statue on the site of Tiki Gardens. Which of the 2 statue choices would have been decided by a vote. A few months later, and the original idea has been distorted so much that Tiki Centralites are understably confused as to what's being erected, by who, and even whether our contributions are relevant, so it's little wonder that some are a little reticent in giving their $20 or more.... Personally, I've just always thought it was a great idea. The inevitable confusion whenever anything to do with Tiki Gardens arose, but quickly loses it's relevance once we know something is going to be built. And most of the money is coming from elsewhere? It can only increase the size of the Tiki! I'd still liked to have voted on which one to put up, though! Trader Woody |
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 4:09 PM
Personally, I was/am waiting to hear what the power-that-be in Pinellas County government have to say before sending in money. IMHO, that should have been the sequence of events from the get-go as no approval equals no tiki. If Cy reports that it's a go, a check from me will be in the mail the next day. We should know in 24 hours. Tick, tock, tick, tock ... As for the choice of the actual tiki to be carved, my understanding is that was more or less decided upon by the carver, who rejected the notion of Kahono (I believe) as it was a bastardization in his view and not a "true" tiki. He basically said it's gonna be Lono, the one used in the TG logo and advertisements, which is fine. The small prototype does look pretty damn cool. Again IMHO, the communication was always there, just scattered throughout the various threads. If the project ever does get rolling, a regularly updated website with the whole project detailed, showing progress, would seem to be pretty much essential. As I live near the site and have web authoring skillz, I'll gladly take that on. |
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 4:30 PM
Mmmm, I mentioned at the time that this was a ludicrous statement. Both Kahona & Lono are 'bastardizations' - you'd be very hard pressed to get any depiction of a Tiki that isn't. I'm not going to cry myself to sleep if my choice (Kahona) isn't built, but the decision resting on the (paid) artist's whim never struck me as being right. Trader Woody |
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 5:17 PM
I think the deal with Lono vs. Kahona kind of comes down to this: Lono was the logo of Tiki Gardens and as such is its most well recognized symbol in the community of Indian Rocks and the rest of Florida. Using Lono in the proposal probably increases the odds of project approval, although this is just my opinion. |
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Wed, Feb 19, 2003 5:43 PM
The "edit" function is such a nice option. It is helpful for the rare instance when one posts something they decide, after calm reflection and contemplation, was in err or somehow miscommunicated their true message. Yes, that "edit" function is a real plus, it makes up for many "off the cuff" or "heat of the moment" type statements that really do more harm than good. Thanks to Holden and Mig for the option. It is appreciated, along with all the other work they do here. Read a book by Dale Carnegie once, it was very helpful. midnite |