Beyond Tiki, Bilge, and Test / Bilge
"What's my Beef" with Atomic Tiki Punk
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Tue, Oct 12, 2010 7:08 PM
Here you go!, a thread to just unload, disagree, use profanity all you want, goof around, discard any semblance of Manners Now Punk & Tiki mix well, like a Mai Tai with attitude. The Moai see, the Moai like! Edit: to reinsert spaces after commas [ Edited by: Atomic Tiki Punk 2010-10-12 19:28 ] |
BB
Bora Boris
Posted
posted
on
Tue, Oct 12, 2010 7:19 PM
You don't leave any space after your commas! |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Tue, Oct 12, 2010 7:22 PM
Well we have our first customer! Thanks for playing!!! And there you go Boris, hope that resolved your beef, Now have a great Tiki day! [ Edited by: Atomic Tiki Punk 2010-10-12 19:46 ] |
BPB
Bay Park Buzzy
Posted
posted
on
Tue, Oct 12, 2010 7:51 PM
Sorry to derail your wonderfully useful thread, but I have some merchandise to move: **Fall 2010 Update and Product Information ** I am still producing, selling, and always have in stock both the Scrubs replca tikis and the Original Brady Bunch replica tikis. They are currently available for order and are ready to be shipped immediately. If you would to purchase either a Scrubs replica tiki or an original Brady Bunch replica tiki from my online store click here You can also email me how many you want and I can email you a pay online invoice. Scrubs KCBrady Ripoff Idols, pictured on the right, come with a black braided cotton cord. The Original Brady Bunch idols, pictured on the left come with a brown hemp cord. Domestic United States of America prices and ordering information : Scrubs versions are $7.99 each One is $7.99 total, shipping included All items are shipped first class mail 1-2 days after payment is recieved and in most cases arrive 2-3 days after I ship them Brady versions are $7.49 each One is $7.49 total, shipping included ORDERING INSTRUCTIONS If you would to purchase either a Scrubs replica tiki or an original Brady Bunch replica tiki from my etsy online store click here If you have paypal already, Paypal payments can be made here: Enter this email address in the "Send Money To" box: You can also email me how many you want and i can email you a pay online invoice. INTERNATIONAL PRICES AND ORDERING INFORMATION These prices are for all non US destinations Scrubs Tikis International prices: Brady Version International orders: Ordering information: If you would to purchase either a Scrubs replica tiki or an original Brady Bunch replica tiki from my online etsy store click here If you have paypal already, Paypal payments can be made here: Enter this email address in the "Send Money To" box: You can also email me how many you want and i can email you a pay online invoice. If there are any other questions, please contact me through PM on this site or email. Eat That! |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Tue, Oct 12, 2010 8:01 PM
Buzzy! Buzzy.......you know that here is where you post your Spam... Do you have a "Beef" with that? now get back to carving those wonderful little wood bastards. [ Edited by: Atomic Tiki Punk 2010-10-12 20:14 ] |
M
MadDogMike
Posted
posted
on
Tue, Oct 12, 2010 8:56 PM
I hate that he looks better in a vintage suit than I do! :x |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Tue, Oct 12, 2010 9:11 PM
Mike! it's the suit that makes the man,so we just need to find the right one for you! |
W
woofmutt
Posted
posted
on
Tue, Oct 12, 2010 10:25 PM
Wait, I don't get the connection of Buzzy's post to this thread by, about, and for Atomic Tiki Punk...OH, OK...Tiki. Well. I guess one out of three ain't bad. |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Tue, Oct 12, 2010 10:29 PM
So what's your beef? woofmutt? |
B
bigtikidude
Posted
posted
on
Tue, Oct 12, 2010 10:31 PM
I hate that ATP didn't make it to my B-day party last Sat. Jeff(btd) |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Tue, Oct 12, 2010 10:41 PM
When your right,you are right Jeff,I got "The Van" and I am coming over |
W
woofmutt
Posted
posted
on
Tue, Oct 12, 2010 10:47 PM
Yeah, I guess my beef wasn't with you but with Bay Park Buzzy, but as you can see below I resolved it:
|
MT
Mai Tai
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 12:55 AM
Whoa, dude, waaaaaay outta line!!! I think you need to chill. You know, Randy, me, and others aren't trying to rain on your parade. So I need to be bitch slapped for feeling that your thread should be moved to "Beyond Tiki"? We've stated numerous times that it's not that big of a deal, but you just cannot take hearing that, or anything that might be a negative against your "precious" thread, and you keep using that circular logic reasoning about how any kind of food can be tiki, or now that anyone cooking anything can post there. I know I was being a little bit of a smart ass with the Count Chocula, and the Tums, but seriously, it was a joke - and besides, how do the homemade tacos differ from 90% of what you and others post on that thread. Hell, I'll even go so far as to say that the addition of coconut milk and the added flair of a cocktail umbrella and a vintage Trader Vic's Potted Parrot Swizzle to the Count Chocula makes it way more "tiki" than anything you have posted, and I actually had to "work" on the presentation, which as all "foodies" know, is a huge part of any food prep. I've stayed off your thread, and have bit my lip as you dragged Randy - who is a super cool guy, and very even tempered, btw - into this ridiculous argument. And it is ridiculous. I have stayed away, and posted nothing all day, and have let it go. Apparently, you are unable to do the same. So, my friend, sorry to inform you, but you are the one who has stepped beyond the boundaries of being a gentleman, and is the one being a douche now. Grow up. |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 1:14 AM
Here you go Mai Tai, here its cool to say what ever you like, disagree, curse, what ever you like |
UB
Unga Bunga
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 1:32 AM
|
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 2:08 AM
I have read your post, first off nobody but you two dragged anyone into anything a "Food Thread" that is in the Tiki & Food category area. You started the whole ridiculous argument and you started it in the rudest way possible, Then you justified your behavior So then your friend jumps right into the thread & does the exact same thing you did. The fact that you two have no concept what-so ever just how rude your behavior is makes me very sad for you. Do you really see no problem here? because many others do. So I started this thread just for you and Randy to voice any opinion you want,because you didn't seem to have the will Go right ahead and post away,call me what ever names you want, disagree with anything I or anyone else has to say [ Edited by: Atomic Tiki Punk 2010-10-13 02:42 ] |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 2:12 AM
Sorry to steel any thunder from your thread, Unga Bunga |
G
GROG
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 11:14 AM
GROG have Cracklin' Oat Bran and Cran-Grape juice for breakfast. GROG have cereal in Tiki bowl, so that make breakfast Tiki. :) |
G
GROG
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 11:16 AM
Oops, wrong thread. |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 11:23 AM
Grog if I had to deal with your eating restrictions,I would have a "beef" with breakfast! Enjoy your breakfast.... |
L
leleliz
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 2:04 PM
Regardless of where a thread is posted..even way out here in bilge...there are still rules on these forums . Two of which are: Be polite. Please refrain from insults and name-calling. Be polite even if someone is insulting you or someone else "started it". If someone is really bothering you, then U-Mod or contact us, but be polite. Never threaten (seriously or jokingly) anyone with violence. Doing so may cause you to be banned from Tiki Central. I just peeked into the food thread..mainly to drool over the food regardless if it was "tiki" food or not..and saw all this ridiculous drama going on. I have come to your thread ATP to say this: Please do your part to make TC an enjoyable and fun forum for ALL OF US. Having never met you in person --although I am sure I will one day -- my opinion of you is being soured by the name calling and subtle/off handed threats that are sprinkled within your posts. It does not matter where a thread is..if its on these forums ALL posting rules apply. As someone who has taken what people have typed the wrong way or read too much into someone's post only to later find out that I misunderstood or jumped to conclusions I ask that you stop with these Bilge posts and go back to contributing in a POSITIVE manner to the forums. I like your building thread as well as your lounge photos...who needs all this other crap? really we don't thanks for reading :) [ Edited by: leleliz 2010-10-13 14:05 ] |
TK
talo ka
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 3:34 PM
double OUTSTANDING mr. GROG. |
TK
talo ka
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 3:37 PM
OH MY>>> look at the big brain on leleliz. she is smart, i think she is displaying much truthiness. |
TK
talo ka
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 3:45 PM
whelllll, wut can be said about an avowed and self proclaimed PUNK. errrr ummmm ahem, nothing bad to say about anybody eveah. buddah doesn't go for that ya know. wink wink nudge nudge. |
A
amybean
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 7:00 PM
burp [ Edited by: amybean 2010-10-13 20:14 ] |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 9:19 PM
Was that Burp from the "Beef" Amy? |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Wed, Oct 13, 2010 10:12 PM
Rescinded! [ Edited by: Atomic Tiki Punk 2010-10-30 02:35 ] |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 12:16 AM
What's my "Beef" |
MT
Mai Tai
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 2:01 AM
What's "Cooking" in Tiki Central? Evidently crow. :wink: |
MT
Mai Tai
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 2:04 AM
That being said, even though this thread got moved to "Beyond Tiki", I don't want to see it get closed. There are people that really enjoy it, so it would be cool if they could carry on in the enjoyment. Anyways, that's my two cents, for what that's worth. And now, here comes my last post on this thread... |
MT
Mai Tai
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 2:05 AM
What disruptions? I've stayed off your thread for more than two days. And did I, or did I not apologize for using harsh disruptive language?
Like I said before, what more do you want, a pound of Tiki Flesh?
I've let it go, I've asked us all to be adults, and I've said that the last thing that I want is for constant rehashing and taunting and name calling to create a downward spiral that is going to get your thread locked. But evidently acting like a mature adult is beyond you. You can't let it go over in the other thread, and you threaten me in this thread, even after you "invite" me and others to post and vent whatever they want without any fear of repercussions. It seems that you feel that you can joke around in a post, and post pics of tiki burritos, etc., but others can't:
Talk about being able to dish it out but not being able to take it!!! My Count Chocula post was most certainly facetious ribbing as well. So it's perfectly okay for you to facetiously rib someone else, but not let anyone reciprocate the action. You call me a poor sport, but it is you that is being the poor sport! And interestingly enough, you then quickly follow with:
I don't see how that's letting it go. In fact, it appears to me that it is the exact opposite of "letting it go". In fact, after I apologized for the second time, you rehashed it yet again! And you call me the one being rude! What charm school did you graduate from???
Well, some have politely disagreed with you. Oh, at first I was snippy, and used the word "fuck". But I apologized for that. Others have tried to politely disagree too.
And your response is usually something like this:
And then more than two days after I have posted anything, you still feel the need to post this:
And on top of not being able to let the issue go that someone disagrees with you, because I have an opinion that dissents from yours, you then feel the need to call me a jerk, rude, a douche, a Stalinist, Tiki Fonzi, The Disruptor, pinhead, asshole, etc., and even feel the need to threaten me. Let me state for the record: I DON"T CARE IF THIS THREAD WAS MOVED OR NOT!!! I don't care if it was moved to Beyond Tiki, or Bilge, or wherever. I've said that before. And because there are several people that enjoy this thread, I'd hate for their sakes to see it get locked. But if you keep poking and taking swipes at me, my opinion on this might change. And let me state this for the record as well: I DON'T CARE WHAT YOUR OPINION OF WHAT TIKI FOOD IS!!! Whether you think it's Spam Musubi or chicken enchiladas, I DON'T CARE!!! And you shouldn't care that I don't care. So give the whole name calling bullshit and threats a rest. So here's the deal on what's going to happen now. I could whine and complain about all of this, and most likely get this thread locked or worse. But why bother? This whole thing is ridiculous, and like others (including a moderator) have told me, it sucks that you had a meltdown just because I feel that a thread should be moved. There are others here that might not be as gracious if they were on the receiving end of what I had to receive from you. But my feelings of not taking any further action is contingent on you not bothering me anymore - that means no "facetious ribbing", no name calling, no threats, etc. I don't want to receive any PM's from you. I am not going to post on this thread anymore. I am not going to send you PM's. In fact, I am not going to post on any of your threads, and am going to steer clear of you on this site. I suggest you do the same. It's a shame that it's come to this, but there you go. Hopefully in the future, we'll be able to laugh about this over drinks. Until then, TIKI FONZI OUT!!! |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 2:54 AM
You didn't hear a word I said,not one!how many times did I need to say it, this was not about any difference of opinion I have not one problem with your point of view,I have a problem with you! Since you took a random sampling of my posts and shuffled them around to make your bullshit point (completely out of context) And stop saying I threatened you, another lie!, you know it was an off colored joke in a post to maddogmike,and was never said to you. Oh and your Taco's suck,(a little Taco with that sour cream!)you obviously don't know how to cook,maybe that's why you started all this trouble. Now I am Done! I don't have another thing to say to you,I don't really know why I wasted my time at first trying to have a conversation with you just to end up screaming at deaf ear's. And that's my "Beef" [ Edited by: Atomic Tiki Punk 2010-10-14 03:04 ] |
TD
TIKI DAVID
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 5:35 AM
You two should get married. |
S
swizzle
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 5:44 AM
That's funny. |
S
swizzle
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 5:54 AM
Where GROG get bowl? |
G
GROG
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 10:22 AM
GROG think it was from either K-Mart or Big Lots several years ago. (Sorry for the non-beefy post. GROG have no beef with ATP) [ Edited by: GROG 2010-10-14 10:25 ] |
TM
tiki mick
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 10:43 AM
Grog, there HAS to be a better way for you to get fiber then to be eating those crackling oat thingies..... I buy golden flax seed at the health food store, and then sprinkle it on any cereal....it adds lots of fiber, and you don't have to eat those cardboard tasting disasters....(I know, I made the mistake of buying them before) Sorry for the non-beefy reply, ATP...... |
LLT
little lost tiki
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 11:45 AM
This looks like as good a place as any to plug my upcoming show! In the meantime... "All Over the Map" Saturday November 6th We will have food and drink This show will contain 20-25 new paintings,reflecting on some of the various styles and subject matter (including Tiki) that I've been exploring these many years The Caged Chameleon gallery I have been exhibiting with them for all of those years,and could not think of better curators or a better venue to celebrate this strange staggering journey... I will be previewing a few of the Tiki pieces that are in this exhibit here, http://www.tikicentral.com/viewtopic.php?topic=19904&forum=18&start=0&2449 |
A
amybean
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 12:27 PM
Wow it didn't take long for my modified Fonz to be claimed as a facebook profile pic! Truly Tiki Fonz |
A
aquarj
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 1:39 PM
OK, I simply can't keep up with the pace of some of the more frequent posting here on TC, so sometimes I'm a little slow coming into, or back to, a thread. For the record, I do not participate in exchanges of insults and name calling, so you will not see me escalate that kind of behavior on this thread, or any thread. Or in real life either. I guess I should post something here. Despite the title of this thread, I guess the initial reason for making this was to divert the discussion of whether the What's "Cooking" in Tiki Central? thread belongs in the Tiki Drinks and Food forum. I was off TC for a couple days, and it looks like the topic has been moved anyway. But I think ATP is reasonable to ask that any more "tiki or not" discussion about that thread goes elsewhere, namely here. As for my part in it, I made one post on that "dinner" thread. All of the following statements were made before my post... *...many meals posted here would not be considered a "Tiki" meal,but the I've seen more Mexican, Italian, Greek, and Middle Eastern dishes than What does eating home cooked Pizza or Hamburgers have to do with tiki Maybe now that the title has been changed, a little more 'on topic' This is Tiki CENTRAL, not a Tupperware party. ...on a website called Tiki Central, ideally things should stay "Tiki" in Not a single one of these posted statements was attacked or whatever. I thought it was pretty much universally agreed that the "dinner" thread was not even trying to be tiki-related. My ONE POST was hardly a departure, containing statements like, "people prefer the tiki forums to be tiki-related" OR "as just ONE THREAD I don't think it's really hurting anybody, and don't personally care that much if it moves." And yet I'm the one who gets a lecture on manners from someone who clearly PERSISTS in ignoring several of the basic TC House Rules on forum manners. We're up to five now that are being totally disregarded, including all of the top three: 1. No politics plus these two *12. If your topic gets moderated (locked, moved, edited), do not take it personally. Moderating is done to improve readability of the site and is not punishment.
It seems to me that anyone who finds it contemptible to say that non-tiki threads should go in Beyond or Bilge, is showing their own contempt for the TC House Rules and actually for the community at large. As for the insults, I'm a grownup and I can live with insults just fine, and I have no interest in complaining to moderators or whatever. But I'm also surprised at how few others or moderators were offended by this stream of invective. Somebody even calls it "smoothing things over"! Glad to see leleliz calling this behavior out for what it is, but sad to see it continuing. And it really is sad, because it twists the discussion into being misinterpreted over and over again as some kind of personal animus or negativity about the actual dishes that were being posted, or whatever. Witness this thread here itself, which was created to bitch about what's tiki, but is for some reason given a subject title about ATP personally. I defy anyone to find an example of actual negativity about the dishes that were shared, beyond the question of tiki or not. The actual attempts to praise the dishes, and highlight common ground, were many. paraphrasing: It is us, whose "Art" is "Cooking" that will define Tiki Cuisine today This is a beautiful idea that I find very appealing and compelling. This would be a very cool tiki-related discussion. I recently read Victor Bergeron's autobiography, and many of his recipes had interesting stories behind them. And along these lines, I like the threads that were recently created to truly promote the discussion of tiki-related recipes and how they could be considered as such. But if you honestly randomly look around in the "dinner" thread, there's very little attempt to relate the dishes to tiki (before the tongue-in-cheek attempts after p.75), or to talk about pairing with cocktails as Sabu described. On the contrary, when the idea of even trying to be tiki-related came up, it was treated as an irritant and disruption, to be mostly mocked. The fact is that the dinner thread is primarily a socializing and sharing thread among a community of talented cooks, without necessarily worrying about whether the discourse or the dishes stay tiki-related. I don't know how many ways to try communicating this - THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT!! Socializing threads are as old as TC itself, and they're a natural part of the community, even if they're non-tiki. The dinner thread offers a great theme for a non-tiki socializing thread, and I don't see what's wrong with just acknowledging it for what it is. And yes, I do understand the angle that the dinner thread has been primarily about food, so even if it's not trying to be 100% tiki-related, people are more likely to find it if it lives in Tiki Drinks and Food. I don't totally discount that perspective, but I don't share that opinion. Carving something non-tiki might likewise be considered appropriate for Tiki Carving, and same goes for music, marketplace, etc. Anyway, that's the opinion I was trying to communicate in a polite way in my ONE POST on the thread. To reiterate, I hope the dinner thread continues on its MAIN COURSE. Actually I never looked at it before, until it was referenced in another thread. My wife makes some amazing stuff, and she often RELISHes the presentation as much as the cooking. F'rinstance I don't know if anyone reading this would be among those TCers who were around in 2002 to see her easter island yams at an Oakland new year's tiki party. One of my first thoughts when I was looking through the dinner thread was that maybe I could post some of her dishes sometime - which are obviously non-tiki most of the time, just as I thought the thread was. But after all this volatility, I think I'll pass. -Randy |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 2:31 PM
Randy you have a real good "beef" Unfortunately you posted soon after Mai Tai's disruptions and echoed his same opinions I did not treat you fairly and was pretty pissed off at that time for an others rude behavior I owe you an apology for my aggressive response to you post and find your post here now in its own context please note that many of the comments you quoted were from people who did not follow or really understand the to date I am at a loss as to why the people who complained about the thread did not think it should Every thread here on TC, Tiki themed or not has many posts unrelated to anything "Tiki" what so ever before the histrionics started on the "Food" thread I brought up some of these points,but they fell on deaf ears. Once again my apologies to you for how I treated your post and you! I hope this resolves your "Beef" |
STCB
Sabu The Coconut Boy
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 2:38 PM
Very well said, Randy. I do think that the "What's Cooking" thread became the unfortunate scapegoat of a larger growing problem that a lot of old-timers here have been noticing - namely the watering-down of tiki content in the main threads, which I think is inevitable when a forum's membership grows as large as this one. However, I think the moderators' intent was to let the thread stay where it was, in "Food & Drink", despite the valid points made by you, Sven and others - because it was one of the least-offenders and had more tiki/ohana spirit than many. However, when the thread devolved into argument, name-calling and anger, it drew too much attention to itself from many others members who shared the opinion that it wasn't really tiki and didn't appreciate the tone, and asked that it be moved. If the arguments had remained healthy and polite, I doubt this would have happened. Which makes me sad. |
B
Babalu
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 2:52 PM
Interesting - I never really payed any attention to this thread until it joined Bilge. Anyway, my 2 cents on this issue is: Food is not Tiki, but how you serve it can be... If this gal danced up to my table with that bowl full of Count Chocula cereal...I would call it Tiki as long as she wanted me to... |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 3:09 PM
Well said Sabu,I am did my part I know.....what can I say? I am not a quiet man. You are indeed a wise man! |
H
hanford_lemoore
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 3:11 PM
Hey all: Drop the name calling and the insults. Drop the meta-discussion of who's right, wrong, and who had good points. Drop the off-topic comments. Let's bring it all back to food! Mahalo, Hanford |
ATP
Atomic Tiki Punk
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 3:22 PM
Thanks Hanford but the food thing is over. |
T
telescopes
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 5:37 PM
Nothings over until someone - I won't mention their name - calls for the thread to be locked! |
J
JOHN-O
Posted
posted
on
Thu, Oct 14, 2010 7:21 PM
Here's my beef. Old-timers like Bigbro, Sabu, and DustyCajun consistently post great content. For any threads that I start (and I've started a lot), I always strive to post good (i.e. articulate) content (even though you might not agree with it). What I find annoying is some "old timers", based on the fact their join date was early 2000's, feel they can pass Tiki judgment on the rest of us, especially when they haven't posted anything of relevance for a long long time. If you're going to pass judgment: Put up or shut up. Thank you for listening. [ Edited by: JOHN-O 2010-10-14 19:35 ] |